God has a plan for what happens in your life. So if you are hurting right now. If you are completely broken down, at your lowest point, just note that nothing bad that happens in your life takes God by suprise (and nothing good that happens takes him by suprise either). God know what he's doing. He has a plan for everything. He is bigger than your concept of him. He really is. Think of it this way:
When you look out to the sky at night and see billions of stars, they seem so small and pointless. Those stars only seem small because of how far away they are... really, they are much larger than us. Now think of those stars (billions and BILLIONS in the galaxy) and now think of the planets. Think of how large and vast are planet is... think of how HUGE our oceans are. When you look out at the ocean, you see nothing but water for miles and miles. Think about how large the sun is. How big the moon is. That is only ONE galaxy. God holds the WHOLE universe in the palm of his hand. THAT'S HOW BIG HE IS! Now think of this... God,is holding your heart. The hands that hold this whole universe is holding YOUR heart. He cares for YOU. He has a purpose for YOU!He loves YOU Just keep that in mind:)